‘The Same Age as my Gums’

‘The Same Age as my Gums’

Ruth Symes looks at our ancestors’ lives in old age

Ruth A. Symes, Teacher with freelance writer

Ruth A. Symes

Teacher with freelance writer


Often seated while others stand, the oldest family members in some photographs might be people who were actually only middle-aged. Without the benefit of modern cosmetics, 20th-century dental expertise and even hair dye, people in the past tended to look much older than they actually were and it is quite easy to mistake a 45-year-old for someone twenty years older.

Middle aged or old?
Middle aged or old? Older people did not keep up with clothing trends in the way that younger people did and thus might well be wearing clothes that are many years out of date Ruth Symes

Early photographers often enjoyed working with old people, whom they found were capable of sitting still for longer, and who were less vain than their younger counterparts. If your elderly ancestor is portrayed alone in a photograph in his/her best clothing, it’s worth considering whether the photograph might have been taken to mark a significant senior birthday such as a 60th, 70th or 80th.

Photographs featuring grandparents and great-grandparents as couples might have been taken to celebrate significant wedding anniversaries; 25th and 50th wedding anniversaries were celebrated from the late 19th century onwards. On birthdays, anniversaries, at weddings and after funerals, three-generation or four-generation photographs were a popular Victorian convention which often featured the eldest family member cradling the youngest.

An elderly woman c1860s
An elderly woman c1860s. She may have been born as far back as the 1780s (Ron Hunt)

How old was old?
Don’t be too surprised to find ancestors on death certificates and censuses who lived to a good old age. Although average life expectancy was much lower in the 19th and early 20th centuries than it is now (47 for men and 51 for women in 1900 as opposed to 76 for men and 81 for women in 1991), this doesn’t mean that most people died in middle age. Calculations of life expectancy were influenced by very high infant death rates which inevitably brought down the ‘mean’ age of death. In fact, those of our ancestors who managed to survive infancy had a pretty good chance of living to 60 and beyond. From 1870 onwards, with improvements both in the medical sciences and in public health, life expectancy started to increase. Middle-aged people were less likely to die from infectious diseases such as cholera or smallpox, for example, and thus might more frequently sally on into old age.

Nevertheless, you should be wary of some of the given ages of your oldest ancestors on official records. A government report (available at (www.visionofbritain.org.uk) into the 1881 census suggested that some very elderly people were tending to overestimate their age, perhaps because extreme old age conferred some degree of respect and social status at the time, perhaps because they had genuinely forgotten how old they were and did not have the documentation to back up their claims. The report advised future enumerators to put little trust in anyone stating their age as a multiple of 5 or 10 over 85. Although 150 people claimed to have reached the age of a hundred or more in Britain that year, the report advised that they be treated with scepticism. Extreme old age was still very rare in the Victorian period. In 1901, only 74 people claimed to have reached a century and this figure is, of course, vastly below that of the 3,000 people who made the same claim in the year 2000.

Support in later life
The chances are that your elderly ancestor will have had to carry on working way past what we now consider to be ‘retirement age’. According to one audit (based on 1007 records from the 1891 census), over 88% of men and 33% of women carried on working after the age of 65 in the last decade of the 19th century. Some men were still working in highly physical jobs as farmers and miners well into their 80s and even, in some cases, their 90s.

Women too might have carried on working as servants, laundresses, cooks and cleaners.

Censuses might reveal that older members of your family moved to live with their children, or that a single daughter had stayed at home – perhaps forfeiting her own marriage prospects in the process – to look after her elderly parents. However, it is worth remembering that multi-generational households in the Victorian period were much less common in Britain than in any other country in Europe and the older people in your family might have had to rely on a variety of other forms of support.

Thomas Tattum
The mid-20th century brought increasing longevity. At 96, Thomas Tattum was the oldest member of the community in Ashton-in-Makerfield on the day of the Queen’s Coronation in 1953 (Ron Hunt)

Some of our elderly ancestors would have benefited from the generosity of religious or private charities. It is worth checking in local and county archives, trade directories and local history books to find out what sorts of charities might have been in operation in the areas in which your ancestors lived. Additionally, some kinds of employment had charities attached to them. The Governesses’ Benevolent Society (founded in 1841) for example, aimed to help some of those women who had made a living teaching in the homes of others and who, in their old age, had no other means of support. While they were still of working age, other people (male and female) joined so-called ‘friendly societies’ to which they paid a weekly or monthly ‘sub’. This money could then be called upon in times of sickness, hardship or, less frequently old age.

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After the Poor Law Amendment Act of 1834, some elderly people in England and Wales qualified for a Poor Law Pension (which covered meals and a small allowance, but no accommodation costs) and were able to stay within their own homes or be looked after by relatives (The Scottish Poor Law Act came into operation in 1845). The names of the recipients of this so-called ‘outdoor relief’ can be found in Poor Law records kept in local, county or national record offices (find those via The National Archives website ).

In the worst cases of poverty, an elderly ancestor will have been admitted to a workhouse. You should check for the location of the relevant workhouse records at The National Archives. Conditions in the workhouse were frequently crowded and unsanitary, work heavy and repetitive, nursing provision poor and the food uninspiring to say the least. Some workhouses had adjoining ‘workhouse infirmaries’ which housed the incapacitated poor, very many of whom were elderly.

The general health of elderly people was very far down the pecking order in terms of the State’s priorities in the Victorian period. Hospitals concentrated on health services targeted at the young and more productive workforce such as vaccination and the treatment of infectious diseases. The admissions regulations for some hospitals, indeed, expressly forbad the admittance of elderly people.

It was not until the inauguration of the National Health Service in 1948 that our elderly ancestors who were suffering from mundane but disabling conditions (impaired hearing, failing eyesight, dental and podiatric problems, for example) could, for the first time be treated for free. The health and well-being of Britain’s elderly population was finally being taken seriously.

In the print edition
Read more about the Poor Law welfare system in Issue 4 of Discover Your Ancestors, out now in newsagents around the world or available online at discoveryourancestors.co.uk

An elderly Scottish crofter at work
An elderly Scottish crofter at work in the days before State pensions; from Scottish Pictures Drawn With Pen and Pencil by Samuel G Green, 1891

Useful books and websites

  • Bothelo L & Thane P, Women and Ageing in British Society Since 1500 (Routledge, 2001).
  • Chase K, The Victorians and Old Age (OUP, 2009).
  • Johnson ML et al, The Cambridge Handbook of Age and Ageing (CUP, 2005).
  • Thane P, Old Age in English History: Past Experiences, Present Issues (OUP, 2002).
  • www.cottontimes.co.uk/poorlawo.htm For more on the 19th century workhouse. www.victoriandotage.wordpress.com On ageing and mental illness during the Victorian period.

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